Open Social Resource Library

Welcome to our one-of-a-kind community library! Here you’ll find a curated selection of media, resources, and expert perspectives on all things polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. Check out our OS Picks for a shortlist of our all-time favs or take your first deep dive with our Starter Kit. We hope you find these insightful and inspiring. Got any recommendations you’d like to see here? Please send them to opensocial🙂  on Discord. Thoughts and feedback are welcome in the comments.

Curated with love in NYC by the Open Social team and community

Join us for a second discussion with Sisseton Wahpeton Oyate Dr. Kim Tallbear on All My Relations. We'll explore Kim's “life project” of critical polyamory, her journey through feminism, her processes of writing in, with, and for community, and Kim treats us with some of her poetry, the “Critical polyamorist 100s”

Even if you don’t recognize the advice columnist Dan Savage by name, it’s possible that his ideas have influenced how you think about sex and relationships. For decades now, Savage has been arguing that our expectations for long-term partnerships are way too high; that healthy relationships are about acknowledging our vast spectrum of desires, not repressing them; and that monogamy is not the ideal setup for every partnership. Through over 30 years of writing “Savage Love,” one of the most widely read sex advice columns in the country, and more than 17 years of hosting the podcast “Savage Lovecast,” he has been one of America’s most subtly influential public intellectuals on the topic of how humans conduct our most intimate — and important — relationships.

Marriage is hard — and there are signs it's becoming even harder. This week on Hidden Brain, we examine how long-term relationships have changed over time, and whether we might be able to improve marriage by asking less of it.

Curious Fox Podcast

In this week’s episode, we’re talking about heartbreak. How do you know when your heart is broken? What can you do about it? And how do you help the heartbroken people in your life? Our expert guest is Guy Winch, noted TED speaker and author of the forthcoming book “How to Fix a Broken Heart.”

Feminist author, sociologist, and cultural critic Wednesday Martin takes us on a bold, fascinating journey to reveal the unexpected evolutionary legacy and social realities that drive female faithlessness, while laying bare our motivations to contain women who step out.

For those challenging the status quo in love, sex, and relationships. Effy Blue and Jacquline Misla explore themes on these subjects through personal stories, interviews, and community discussions (and laugh a lot).

Ladies, We Need To Talk dives headfirst into the tricky topics we often avoid talking about, like our alcohol consumption, the struggles of monogamy and the wonders of our vaginas. With sensitivity, personal stories, and serious smarts, this show is for women who feel the squeeze between work, their private life, and their pelvic floor. Join host Yumi Stynes as she tears open the sealed section on life.

Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships. Whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we’re here for you. Multiamory is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts.

A podcast that's about more than swinging and polyamory... It's about inclusivity. Every week we share stories from across the spectrums of race, gender, sexuality, and non-monogamy.

Remodeled Love is a podcast whose mission is to help expand the cultural narrative on healthy relationships, polyamory, parenthood, and love. It is produced and hosted by polyamorous mama, Jessica Daylover (Jessica Levity), and most often co-hosted with her husband and babydaddy, Joseph Daylover (and beginning in 2024, her whole polycule!)

For some actors, finding the line between intimacy on stage and in real life can be a bit murky. It takes strong direction and training in a safe environment. But like any good fight scene, it can’t be left up to the actors to choreograph themselves. Tonia Sina is an intimacy choreographer, and her work has helped provide protocols and safety nets that prevent the types of sexual harassment she’s witnessed first hand.

Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics is our weekly podcast where we have candid conversations about sexuality. We offer expert advice and practical strategies so YOU can experience more sexual pleasure!

AOD Water A proper galactic evisceration of what you dummy humans call love. Attachment/ twin flames/ Big Macs/ Whoppers/ Codependency

In this wide-ranging episode, we cover a lot of ground, including:

  • Technical sex tips

  • How Alice puts people at ease, including adult virgins

  • BDSM and power play

  • Threesome do’s and don’ts, plus the “Big KO” finishing move

  • Her music playlist for getting people into the erotic zone

  • Misconceptions about sex workers and the realities

  • Why “The Girlfriend Experience (GFE)” is her most popular offering

  • How she works with couples who want to explore new boundaries.

Join Esther in her office every Monday to listen in as real couples in search of help bare the raw, intimate, and profound details of their stories.
From break-ups and open relationships to workplace conflicts and fractures in the family, come for a glimpse into another’s world and stay for what you’ll learn about your own. 
Whether you listen alone, or with a partner or friends, we encourage you to use the podcast as a map for navigating difficult relational conversations.

What is love? With half of first time American marriages ending in divorce by the 20th anniversary, and infidelity being widespread, Science Vs asks: have we been lied to by our love songs?

On today’s episode we explore: What happens to the brain when we fall in love? Is the compulsion to stay together biological? And, is monogamy really unnatural? We talk to Dr. Helen Fisher, Professor Larry Young, and Dr. Dieter Lukas about their labors of love.

Can a polyamorous relationship work? Is monogamy the only relationship that can succeed? According to Certified Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi, beautifully functioning open relationships can and do work!

Polyamory involves engaging in multiple romantic or sexual relationships with different people. These relationships will work, but couples must first put the right pieces in place to ensure a secure, successful, workable and healthy polyamorous relationship.

Megan, Kyle and Marty started this journey over two years ago, discussing their learning curve around practicing non-monogamy. Since then, they've realized that regardless of relationship structure, what they are really learning is about how to create healthy relationships with themselves and others. They speak with radical honesty, compersion, love, support, and create safe spaces for each other to emote in the entire spectrum of emotions. Join them on this journey of healing & love through relating.

Since Amory podcast ended check out also The Loving Challenger podcast

A dating and pleasure podcast featuring two metamours. Learn to date better, play harder and love deeper with a sex & dating writer and relationship coach, who happen to share the same boyfriend.

Non-Monogamy Help is a relationship advice podcast for people in non-monogamous or polyamorous relationships. With the help of a therapist with over a decade of experience, your host Lola Phoenix, answers the questions your questions about rules, hierarchies, unicorns and more.

Non-monogamy is not for everyone, but maybe you are curious about it. Could it be right for you? How do non-monogamous couples deal with jealousy? I was curious myself, and the more I asked, the more I became surprised by this unexplored topic. In Polycurious I have casual and intimate conversations with non-monogamous couples, sex and relationship experts, friends, and even people who tried polyamory and realized it wasn’t for them. This podcast is for the polycurious, whether you have explored non-monogamy or not.